.

2012-02-12T22:34:00.001+08:00

If you deny, u will have to slp livin room for 3 yrs!

Dear you promise me hor! dont Deny after 3 yrs!

2012-02-12T22:31:00.001+08:00

Hey guys! i cant wait for you guys to come into my life! Dear! remember your promise!

Two as it is!

2012-02-12T19:22:00.001+08:00

2012-02-12T10:19:00.002+08:00

2012-02-12T09:52:00.000+08:00

4TH BLOOM!

IM ROUNDDDDDDD

THANKS DEAR!

LOVE THE FLOWERS THO THEY HAVE NO SMELL LOL

Time to relax

2012-02-06T18:41:00.001+08:00

2012-02-03T22:08:00.000+08:00

2012-02-03T18:40:00.002+08:00

Why everyone can laugh so happily but i can't.
Problems just occur never ending.
Debts, hospital, whats more to come?

9 ways to tell if your love is real

2012-02-01T20:05:00.000+08:00

1. You feel good. A good relationship makes you feel good about yourself.
2. You look forward to spending time with your partner. You don't need to be with others or go to events to avoid being alone together. You enjoy spending quality time together even when its quiet.
3. You respect your partner. You hear yourself bragging about your partner.
4. You're interested in what your partner thinks. You ask your partner's opinion about issues that are important to you.
5. You accept your partner's quirks. Everyone has them.
6. You're able to work through your problems. Its natural to have some bumps in the relationship road to true bliss.. People in healthy relationships see disagreements as a chance to learn more about their partner.
7. You feel safe. You're not afraid of losing your partner.
8. You cant explain why you're together because you truly want to be.
9. You cant compare your partner to others. There will always be someone more beautiful, smarter or more athletic than your partner, but you dont care because you only want to be with him.

2012-01-31T22:49:00.000+08:00

women

2012-01-31T12:21:00.001+08:00

Women.

Women have strengths that amaze men.
They carry children, they carry hardships, they carry burdens.
They fight for what they believe in.
They dont take 'no' for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.
They do without new shoes so their children can have them.
They go to doctor with a frightened friend.
Women do more than just give birth.

18 Things Guys wish Girls knew

2012-01-27T16:56:00.003+08:00

1. Guys arent psychic, mind telling them what u mean?
2. Girls who dont want to listen to the truth shouldnt be asking any questions.
3. Ending a heated conversation with 'Fine' or 'Whatever' isnt considered acceptable.
4. Dont expect guys to say as many sweet things as they do in the movies. It takes 10 couples to come up
    with one sweet thing that they put up in the movies.
5. Only models are able to carry off most of the stuff you see in fashion magazines.
6. A guy who loves you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
7. A GUY WOULD SACRIFICE HIS MONEY FOR LUNCH JUST TO GET YOU A COUPLE OF
    ROSES?
8. Guys need to be reassured often that they're still loved.
9. Guys do not look into minute detailling. So, if you cut a quarter of an inch from your hair, dont expect
    your guy to know that instantly.
10. Cooking makes a girl all the more attractive.
11. The only thing left to be said after sex is 'goodnight'.
12. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
13. No matter how much guys talks about hotness or sex appeal, personality is the key.
14. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys RAREly say that.
15. A guy has more problems that you can see with your naked eyes.
16. Its not that guys dont want to make their girlfriends happy, its just that sometimes, they dont know how.
17. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he isnt doing it all for sex. It means he
      loves you more than you can imagine.
18. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

2012-01-25T23:56:00.001+08:00

2nd year cny

2012-01-25T23:54:00.002+08:00

2012-01-25T23:36:00.001+08:00

http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/4vygpm/spoilerium.com/animalcrossing.jpg/

2012-01-25T23:30:00.002+08:00

2012-01-25T23:15:00.001+08:00

2012-01-25T23:11:00.000+08:00

I've learned that no matter how much I care,
some people just don't care back.
And it's not the end of the world.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to
doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned to love
and be loved.
I've learned...

2012-01-25T22:56:00.002+08:00

Heart felt words from a Man

2012-01-25T22:36:00.001+08:00

She is my best friend. I would rather hang out with her than any one else I know. Our Saturday’s of running errands or taking a few moments to talk over coffee at Starbucks, is some of the moments I cherish the most.
She shows me I’m worthy to be loved. I don’t feel like I’m second choice in her life.
She takes me out of my comfort zone. She challenges me and she doesn’t let me take the easy, or safe way out of a situation. She reminds me that to keep growing as a person, I must continue to face my fears and insecurities.
She has a forgiving heart. She doesn’t carry a grudge or harbor resentment for long periods of time. Once she has accepted my apology for something I have done, and has chosen to forgive me – she means it and she lives it.
I miss her when we are apart for a few days. Time away from each other is healthy and beneficial; the homecoming is ever sweeter.
Sometimes she actually thinks I’m funny. She appreciates my sarcastic wit and my occasionally well-timed comebacks. No courtesy laughs here – she gets my sense of humor.
She still likes to hold hands when we take our after-dinner walks. Our evening walks have always been a great source of connection for us. We use this time to discuss our days and to help each other process or solve problems. Holding hands while we walk makes this time that much more special.
She loves to cuddle. At the end of the day, when the day’s responsibilities are behind us, we grab a few moments to just be with each other as we chat and cuddle while watching something mindless on television. A few golden minutes to be sure.
She never quits on herself, or on us. I’m often taken back by her strong will (and sometimes just plain stubbornness) to never give up. No matter the obstacles, or the pain, or the circumstances, she has the ability to reach down and find something more to help keep her moving forward.

2012-01-25T10:20:00.001+08:00

2012-01-22T00:10:00.002+08:00

14 things she wishes you knew

2012-01-21T03:42:00.000+08:00

1. Saying "I love you" immediately before, during, or following sex doesn't count.
2. I will leave if you lie.
3.I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.
4."Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.
5.I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be.
6.A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies.
7.I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.
8.I'm in heaven when you hold my hand.
9.I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.
10.Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.

11.I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you--and for you to recognize this.

12.I like it when you tell me what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself.

13.I remember everything about our relationship.

14.You should know all this and more with-out my telling you.

2012-01-19T07:20:00.001+08:00

his face looks like a time bomb now.
duno when it will explode or wat will happen next.
i feel so scared.

2012-01-16T22:18:00.001+08:00

A BREADWINNER WHO BRINGS DEBT HOME

2012-01-15T19:47:00.001+08:00

Is it a sin to have tattoos?

2012-01-14T07:56:00.002+08:00

吃你豆腐！

2012-01-09T22:18:00.002+08:00

2012-01-08T22:18:00.000+08:00

2012-01-07T16:46:00.001+08:00

Dear dear wish you happy 29th birthday! I knew you're already out of your house therefore i can post on blog first wkakakak! Sorry the cake really looks damn ugly! But i seriously hope you will like it! muacks! MAke your best wish!

2012-01-03T20:44:00.002+08:00

2nd of jan 2012 first anni!

2012-01-02T23:37:00.001+08:00

Baby thanks for this video i love it very much!

Happy one year anni!

2011-12-28T22:29:00.001+08:00

2011-12-28T20:58:00.002+08:00

8 sticks of beef jerky for me to get on plane tomorrow! supper happy!

2011-12-26T22:59:00.001+08:00

Finally get to eat my xmas roast chicken! but not the type i like hehe

2011 xmas!

2011-12-25T10:10:00.001+08:00

24th dec 2011 ling's wedding!

lovely present from deardear!

after wedding dinner, maciam within 5 min, tada! im at bedok reservior new bistro chill out hahhaha

very nice place indeed! got the beach feeellll

2011-12-19T13:23:00.002+08:00

Dinner with Lai taitai and lai xian sheng @ jalan kayu bah kut teh. Nice!

Marry the night!

2011-12-18T12:07:00.002+08:00

Love all these pics!

Guess whose finger is this!

Who dare put cumcumber on a girl's hand during clubbing??? Priest lor!

2011-12-11T21:38:00.000+08:00

Dear's first try cooking full course meal! miss the lady's finger out!very very yummy!

突然想愛你MV-許如芸

2011-12-10T23:32:00.000+08:00

2011-12-10T19:27:00.000+08:00

2011-12-10T19:14:00.001+08:00

怎么那么爱你

2011-12-08T20:55:00.001+08:00

i duno why i just feel like crying

2011-12-04T22:30:00.002+08:00

most memorable day

2011-12-02T21:48:00.002+08:00

best surprise dear has given me! really touched

2011-11-29T22:07:00.002+08:00

Finally get to cook my 鲁肉贩

Breaking dawn part 1

2011-11-26T20:28:00.000+08:00

This is very sweetttt

heart ache!

2011-11-25T22:28:00.000+08:00

2011-11-24T21:41:00.001+08:00

Tho there are lotsa problems waiting for me to solve em. And its breaking my brain sometimes.. But im contented. Coz i have you. No matter what happens..

2011-11-24T21:02:00.000+08:00

i love u!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I VERY MISS U LEIII OMG..

2011-11-23T19:41:00.000+08:00

周杰倫 mine mine［房间版］

2011-11-21T23:07:00.000+08:00

2011-11-16T23:06:00.002+08:00

You can take everything i have

You can break everything i am

Like im made of glass

Like im made of paper

Go on and try to tear me down

I will be rising from the ground

Like a skyscraper

Im about to lose it all

me, myself and cries

2011-11-16T22:52:00.004+08:00

Is it really okay not to be okay?

Everybody's bruising

I can't be myself anymore

The more i try the less its working

coz everything inside me, screams no no no no no no!

Leave me alone!

2011-11-14T23:29:00.000+08:00

pig in dog body, boy in girl body

First time @ Dome!

2011-11-14T21:02:00.001+08:00

i wana go bk there to drink coffee agn!

2011-11-14T21:00:00.001+08:00

So angry. i did not touch a single cig the whole day but i still smell like a chimney.

When will the soot from the short circuit disperse

paul young-everytime you go away

2011-11-13T23:26:00.000+08:00

2011-11-08T22:18:00.001+08:00

After all the things iv done, you indirectly say im unfilial.

i love taiwan

2011-11-07T07:48:00.000+08:00

2011-11-03T21:01:00.001+08:00

2011-11-02T22:28:00.000+08:00

His presence is what makes my heart beats.

2011-10-26T21:10:00.001+08:00

I close my eyes and smile.
Not because something amazing just happened.
Just because.
Just because I was thinking.
I was thinking about what makes me happy.

I close my eyes and smile.
You see, I was looking at old pictures.
Old memories.
Old memories of meaningful times in my life.
I was thinking about the people who are important to me.

I close my eyes and smile.
I hear music from my earphones playing softly.
Playing meaningfully.
Playing meaningfully through these memories.
I was thinking about how our senses are intertwined with memories.

I close my eyes and smile.
Not because someone just did something extraordinary.
Just because.
Just because they were, they are.
I was thinking about what makes me smile.

22/10/2011 i realise..

2011-10-22T13:18:00.004+08:00

It took me 28 years to understand and feel the pain my mom has been living thru.

How i wish i could rewind my life and treat her better.

I used to think that all mom are just a pain in the neck.

They are just particular about everything.

And so, i did things that hurt her feelings.

Shouting, slamming the door, staying out at night, working in pub and many more.

Sometimes i wonder how did she pass her days?

If im her, im sure to be weeping everyday quietly in my room.

Now then i realise why mom are so particular about everything.

Its because they love us too much, and wants us to become a better person.

if, we changed, they will be paranoid that we may become worse.

Hence they become strict.

Its also because, she scrimp and save and take care of me since i was a baby

But every step that i make is just going against her.

21/10/2011, after hearing what mom talks about the pass, i truely felt regret.

With such a father, bringing me and my brother up was really very tough.

I still can remember last time she used to use sewing machine to make pillow covers to earn money.

Life was hard, we stay in a 2 room flat. But i was never lack of anything.

Why do i only realise her pain when im already 28?

And i imagine her living with 2 kids who always break her heart, and a husband who don't care.

Who does she turn to?

I still remember i used to let her fry fishballs for children's day, for me to bring to school.

She used to walk me to school and everything.

But when i started to grow up, walking to school with mom seems very kiddish.

I even ask her to stop doing that.

Regrets.

Oh yes, i recalled something.

When i was still very young, i have one auntie, she asked mom to let her be my god mother.

As in 'jie bai' that type.

Mom ask me( i was still a kid)

But i rejected. i clearly know who is my mom and mom, there's only one.

One who will treat you right, and who u must be faithful to.

Therefore i can't share my love with other mom.

Dear, if i ever die one day before my mom, pls let her see this page.

Tell her that i never stop loving her.

Pls take good care of her for me if im ever gone.

pressies from ger!

2011-10-18T20:39:00.001+08:00

i never knew someone will hear my prayers!

randoms

2011-10-17T21:37:00.002+08:00

2011-10-17T21:12:00.006+08:00

my 28th bday! camp and bbq!

2011-10-17T20:57:00.006+08:00

People always say Friends do not stay while relationships is the only thing u treasure because its your partner who will be there with you forever. But i beg to differ. To me, both are equally important. i will wana grow old with them and we still be playing mahjong when we are on our walking sticks.

dinner @ holland V

2011-10-17T20:55:00.000+08:00

Dinner @ a restaurant full of terrorist like waiters lol

2011-10-17T20:48:00.001+08:00

trip to jb!

2011-10-10T23:57:00.002+08:00

I JUST RECEIVED MY BEST BDAY GIFT!

277! MY FAV!HOPE EVERYTHING TURNS OUT FINE. =)

OCT 2011 I RECEIVED MY BEST BDAY GIFT.. .CANT STOP SMILING!

2011-10-10T20:19:00.000+08:00

MY FIRST PRESENT!

2011-10-09T13:24:00.001+08:00

2011-09-28T19:07:00.004+08:00

Singapore’s population grew by 2.1 per cent to reach 5.18 million at end June 2011, even as the number of permanent residents fell.

2011-09-21T21:35:00.001+08:00

都是我没用

2011-09-20T20:21:00.001+08:00

我常在想应该再也找不到

任何人像你对我那么好
好到我的家人也被照料
我的朋友还为你撑腰

你还是有一堆毛病改不掉
拗起来气得仙女都跳脚
可是人生完美的事太少
我们不能什么都想要

2011-09-19T22:42:00.001+08:00

2011-09-12T23:23:00.003+08:00

Love happens when...

you doll yourself up even when its not the first few dates

you worry every sec if he's having a good or bad day at his new job

you want to take care of each and every of his daily errands

helping him ease his burdens

his name in your handphone is the name that u hope that it will appear everytime it rings

even if it means staying at home all day doing nothin yet

you still enjoy his company

all of his critics means alot to you

changing your temper under his influence

no other guys would be able take away your heart anymore

you would do just anything to help him balance his work, family and friends

you just dont feel that you've done a great deed after doing all these

you just feel that its always not enough accomplishing these

2011-09-12T23:21:00.001+08:00

Love is a very enchanting thing

Once u found the right one

You just couldn't stop wondering why everyday, of how come its so special

You just couldnt stop thanking god that he's sent to you

my first time tryin samsui chicken!

2011-09-10T20:06:00.002+08:00

dear dear's first time making siew mai!

he say its 100% nice! =X

2011-08-29T23:27:00.004+08:00

POOP!WORK HALFWAY POOP! SO BO ENG LOLLLL

PREYYY

ZAI WU DING CHANG ZHE NI DE GE..

2011-08-29T22:02:00.001+08:00

古巨基 Leo Ku - 好想好想

2011-08-26T16:33:00.001+08:00

Dear this song is especially for u!

2011-08-24T23:25:00.002+08:00

''Overcome'' is a very strong word. You have to possess courage, uncertainties, fears and lotsa factors before you can really perform it. =(

2011-08-24T14:25:00.000+08:00

me: i wana go zoo
dear: why? fun meh?
me: not fun
dear: wkakaaka den why wana go?
me: i jus feel lk goin. lol
(thinkin, i need animals to ease me, gimme comfort, in this cold cold world.)

2011-08-22T19:52:00.001+08:00

dear u look shag, must drink more tonic @ my house..

你在拼什么，在忆什么最多？

2011-08-21T13:41:00.000+08:00

2011-08-18T23:15:00.001+08:00

Dear XXX,

pls bless me for tomorrow's battle. im so afraid of facing my days

2011-08-16T23:32:00.001+08:00

Ah ma ah gong i miss u .. thanks for blessing me from up above.. i miss uuuuuuu.. how i wish i could still get to eat your homemade ba zhang..

160811

2011-08-16T22:44:00.002+08:00

ITs a very memorable day for me. All this while staying by your side going thru ups and downs. Watching you at your lowest period and slowly climbing your way up. Achieving your targets one by one.. At that moment when you're collecting your first car in your life, i just had a feeling which i just cant describe. Im so glad to be the one to be experiencing with you your progresses. Perhaps to others, getting a good job and a car is normal. But i know to you its really hard work for you. And trust me, im just as anxious and excited as you are. Its like im growing up with you both like a baby slowly to an adult. I hope everything goes smoothly for you as days gone by. baby, i love u

2011-08-13T10:16:00.001+08:00

dear thanks for the news you told me yesterday, im v v v happy =)

2011-08-11T22:49:00.001+08:00

太愛你

張敬軒【只是太愛你】MV

2011-08-11T22:48:00.000+08:00

2011-08-03T19:48:00.001+08:00

Disappointed maorie

2011-07-25T22:47:00.000+08:00

our prizes from hitting fish!

muacks!

2011-07-23T11:09:00.003+08:00

dear thanks for your breakfast! love it! you are so nice to meeeeee

kc phua: eat lunch waste some time buy ur fourskin tshirt.

(muahahha dear! i love u! this simple sentence made me feel so loved!)

2011-07-22T21:43:00.000+08:00

omg! first time!

chinese calender 16 june 2011

2011-07-17T16:42:00.001+08:00

early in the morning 7am, going to bai bai to my ah gong's deathe anni. ah gong , ah ma, i miss u. i finally bring my bf for u to see. =)hope u both is happily up there.. as i was walking out of the temple entrance, i could feel ah gong n ah ma's presence at the gate waving goodbye to us. mostly, its my imagination.

invitation to evelyn's hse warming!

2011-07-17T13:07:00.003+08:00

yeah! i miss my bian dang sooo much!today finally can cook that!

chilling @ eve's new house, cool! so envyyyyy

coolest house i ever seen! bball court--> house!

2011-07-16T11:43:00.002+08:00

its a bball court my dear!